不懂珍惜，只会后悔莫及

    杯子：‘我好寂寞，我需要水，给我点水吧。’
    主人：‘好吧，拥有想要的水，你就不寂寞了吧？’
    杯子：‘应该是吧。’

    於是，主人把开水倒进杯子里。

    水很热，杯子感到自己快被融化了。杯子想，这就爱情的力量吧。水变温了，杯子觉得很舒服。杯子想，这就是生活的感觉吧。水变凉了，杯子非常害怕，但怕什么它也不知道。杯子想，这应该就是失去的滋味吧。

    水凉透了，杯子绝望了。杯子想，这就是缘分的“杰作”吧。

    杯子：‘主人，快把水倒出去，我不需要了。’

    主人不理它。杯子觉得好压抑。可恶的水，水冰又凉，放在心里，感觉好难过。

    杯子倾力一晃，水终於流出杯子心里，杯子好开心。

    突然，杯子掉在地上。

    临死前它看见自己心里每一个地方都有水的痕迹，这才知道，它爱水，它是如此地爱着水，可是，它再也无法把水完整地放在心里了。

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     如果，杯子懂得珍惜水，就不至于跌在地上，摔个粉碎；如果，杯子懂得水终究会由热慢慢变凉，不再炽热，但仍然维持持着水的温顺，水的轻灵，仍是它所爱的水；如果，杯子能够懂得珍惜.....

     人沉浸在恋爱里的时候，就跟这个杯子一样，而水，就是我们的爱情。当水还冒着蒸汽热腾腾的时候，我们恨不得将它满满地倒进心里，享受那滚烫激烈的快乐；但当它开始变温，转凉，我们就渐渐不再喜欢它了。

     杯子不明白，再怎么火热的水，总有回归到常温的一天，只有回到常温，才能够长长久久。

     可惜，杯子不懂得珍惜。

     爱情到底是什么？难道只是经历过痛苦才知道珍惜吗？难道非得等到一切都无法挽回，才说后悔莫及吗？

爱情当然需要用心经营

       丽娴与男朋友终於要结婚了，他们爱情长跑了八年的时间，最后要幸福地跨入礼堂。朋友们都想知道丽娴究竟是如何经营感情的。

       ‘传授一些绝招吧！让我们也跟妳一样幸福！’死党婉婉这样说。

       ‘嗯... ..’丽娴想了一下才说：‘其实很简单啊，我觉得。。。。就是要让两个人都做自己，记得说请,谢谢,对不起,然后常常夸奖他,最后是不要玩他,就好啦！’

       ‘妳在说什么呀？还请谢谢对不起咧！’婉婉一脸狐疑。丽娴忽然笑了，说道：‘对呀！两个人都做自己，就是妳不要骗他，他也不要骗妳，装是装不了一辈子的，也不要一直想要改变对方，给彼此多点空间！说请，谢谢，对不起，就是因为我觉得大家忘记珍惜，忘记感激妳的情人为妳做事情呀！’

       ‘比方我都会跟他说：“谢谢你载我回家”，“谢谢你帮我扫地”，“谢谢你陪我哭泣”，“谢谢你这么爱我”... ..。这些话说出来，不但对方能接收到妳的感激，妳自己听在耳里也等于是提醒你自己对方的好，就会更甜蜜呀！’

       ‘常常称赞对方，并不是要妳硬把对方缺点说成优点啦！是要仔细观察对方，把他的长处告诉他，让他知道妳为什么爱他，这样他一定会更爱你喔！’

     ‘最后就是不说气话，不冷战，不要搞失踪！有事情要用讲的，不要认为对方理应知道妳怎么想的！尤其是女生，不要动不动就跟男生玩“猜心”，他们大多都是直缐思考，妳生气伤心，他则是一头雾水，不知道该怎么辦？搞失踪就更不好了！对感情很伤，也根本于事无补！所以我后来都不会这样做了，有问题跟他说清楚，他一定会了解的。’


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       态度，决定你们的感情能够有多深，能够走多远！

       丽娴的这四大绝招，看起来可能不难，但却是很多人在恋爱里都会犯的错误。因为熟了，因为在一起久了，我们常会忘记谢谢对方，感激对方，会忘记称赞对方，有时还觉得肉麻。因为想要屈就对方或让对方迎合自己，我们也会忘记“做自己”这件事有多么重要。

   然后，说气话，搞失踪，则像是压垮彼此关系的最后一根稻草，让一段本来有可能开花结果的感情，最终仍是走向了分手的结局。

   恋爱就像所有其他情感一样，是需要经营的。只凭着热恋期的冲动，不可能走得长久。任意地对它，不懂得珍惜它，那么我们将注定无法从它当中得到幸福。

   聪明的你，知道应该怎么办了吗？

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Nothing much

Chinese New Year is around the corner..wow!! so excited!

It's been awhile I did not update my blog. 

Nothing much happen..kekeke...

Started my industry training for a month already...quite good, but BORING because they did not give me work to do...huhuhuu...sitting at the workshop whole day waiting for job...but nothing comes..

I'm the only girl at the workshop..hehee..luckily the workers there are helpful and friendly  :)

Before I forget...I want to show you guys the CD that I mention before...the CD that I won from Mnet..arrived.

Check it out!!! 

PSY Autographed ALBUM

Items inside the album

Bought some firecrackers...can't wait for CNY eve! I want to enjoy watching fireworks and the Chinese New Year season. 

Hey hey 2013

Many things have had happen to me last year..good and bad, sweet and sour. Good news is thank God I am still alive..no more 211212 doomsday..2012 is over, now it is 2013. 

Started my industry training these December. A lot of things to learn. Although sometimes it is quite boring. The workers there are friendly and welcoming me happily. I am so glad to have a good supervisor and co-workers. Hopefully my industry training is going well and hope to get great CGPA for my LI. Gambateh!!

2012 is the year I struggle with some love issues. 

Still remembered on 13/4 which is the day before Valentine's day, I confessed my interest to Mr. XX. I used a lot of strength and courage to do it. Thanks so much to my roommate who encourage me and told me not to wasting time and just have a try..maybe it will works. It's not wrong to tell someone that you like them instead of you never told them and they don't know there is someone got interest on them. Although it doesn't goes well at the end but I really happy and no regret with what I have done. Although we didn't really become friend after that but I am really HAPPY because atleast I have left a necklace & a birthday gift to him. Hopefully he will keep it for memory. Haha

Recently, there is some guys came approach me. but I rejected them. Maybe is because He is still in my heart and until now there is no one can replace him or is it because I am too picky. (Well, honestly I admitted that I am a picky person..handsome and good looking guys really can't get off of my eye.) So what can I do is to wait someone really cares about me to come to me and show me how they really likes me otherwise they will also get an 'x' from me ..hehe

I also have been stalking his wall these few weeks, saw his post about being used by his girlfriend make me feel sad and want to give him a hug. he tries to buried that feeling so much and will move on although his girlfriend is not loyal to him. What can I see from here is he is such a kind and loyal boyfriend.This makes me happy with my choice to be his secret admirer. To FM: I am so envious of you because you have a good looking and loyal boyfriend. Please give your everything to him as he give his to you. Please be grateful and love him more. 

That's all from me. But before I end my post for today, I would like to share some inspiration/facts about love. tata